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Gospel songs that help fans handle grief and heartbreak
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Gospel songs can help fans handle grief by giving voice to pain and pointing the heart to hope. The messages in these songs remind listeners that sorrow coexists with faith.

This is important because grief extends beyond funeral services. According to the latest grief report from The New York Life Foundation, 61% of working Americans aged 18-71 reported the loss of a loved one while employed.

Music will not make people forget about heartache and loss. However, a voice or choir will help make a lonely hour shared.

Why Gospel Music Can Help Fans Handle Grief

Gospel music often recognizes suffering without equating it to the end of something. The organ or choir can hold the sorrow, then help the listener move forward in faith.

This reaction goes beyond a church culture. The study Uses and Gratifications of Music in Bereavement shows that 94% of 141 people who had experienced the loss of a loved one in hospice reported the use of music during bereavement.

Some songs will be appropriate on some days, but not every other day. Quiet Christian songs will fit some hours, while other hours will require the whole atmosphere of praise and worship.

Songs That Meet Loss With Honest Faith

Marvin Sapp’s “Never Would Have Made It” resembles a testimony of a person who survived pain and found faith. The repeating message of the song provides easy words when nothing else works.

Tamela Mann’s “Take Me to the King” will match hours when the person is too exhausted to pretend that all is well. The song does not jump into joy. Its prayerful tone can resonate with weak faith.

Blanca’s “Something Better” speaks about moving forward after grief and heartbreak. Blanca wrote the album called The Heartbreak and the Healing, which was inspired by hard years of the past, making her story of spiritual healing personal.

Hopeful Songs for the Hardest Hours

I Won’t Complain,” popularized by Rev. Paul Jones, accepts the tears and yet does not forget to give thanks for good things. The song can support someone who is not yet ready to rejoice, but wants to pray.

Soon and Very Soon” by Andraé Crouch provides an opportunity to experience a brighter type of comfort in the thought that there is going to be a time to see the King.

A song can cause you to experience suppressed feelings. If sadness begins to disrupt sleep or daily tasks, licensed professional counselors can help a person work through the pain with clear support.

How to Build a Personal Gospel Playlist

Find a song that acknowledges pain. Add a song that brings peace, and then close the playlist with a song that provides hope.

Personal experience and connections with faith are more important than the popularity of the songs. A hymn heard in childhood can provide more comfort than popular songs because it connects faith with safe times or loved ones.

Let Faith and Music Carry the Next Step

No playlist can set a limit on healing. However, the proper gospel song can help a person to breathe and pray. These songs can help the listener to feel a bit less lonely in the following minutes.

Fans can use music to handle grief and seek professional help when the burden becomes unbearable. Check out Praise Houston to find more gospel songs and stories that help to build faith.