There are certain words some singles grow tired of hearing over and over again. “When are you going to settle down?” is always at the top of that list, because it’s frustrating to be constantly reminded of a goal that currently feels out of reach. Well, the same is true for us married women.
Some folks, whether married or unmarried, can underestimate what is really needed to keep a marriage afloat. Commitment and sacrifice are both key ingredients for strong relationships, and marriage isn’t as easy as it might look. With that being said, please refrain from saying the following to the wives in your life:
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“You should always cook for your man.”
As much as we desire to, there are other factors that come into play. Especially for those who work outside the home. Yes, we do have to be able to juggle our multiple roles, but it should also be understandable when we’re tired from working full-time or chasing toddlers around all day. A happy compromise is to plan meals in advance, but also look to our partners for assistance when needed.
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“There’s always another woman willing to do what you won’t.”
Wow, really? If a man uses this one as an excuse to get his jollies off, so be it. It’s a very lame one, in my opinion. What makes a marriage work is communication. Whenever anything is neglected in a relationship, it needs to be addressed. Any man who doesn’t allow his partner the opportunity to fix what’s broken, was looking for a way out anyway. And remember marriage is more than just sex; it is also based on love, communication, commitment, and support.
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Phrases Married Women Hate To Hear
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