Via: defendernetwork.com
When your child is angry and throws a tantrum, do you feel as though you have no control? Thoughts of helplessness can creep into the mind of even the most motivated parent.
A common reaction from parents whose child has just thrown a fit is to quickly return to life as usual. However, if little Johnnie or Suzy isn’t taken aside and taught that tantrums won’t be tolerated, the behavior is sure to repeat itself.
The next time your child has a meltdown, remember: You need to control your own emotions, and you need to correct your child’s behavior.
Here are a few strategies to help you and your child stay in control.
Training days
Take time each day to practice your own personal staying-calm plan. The plan can be as simple as taking several deep breaths or as involved as reciting a positive message in your head.
Have a game plan for dealing with your child’s tantrums. You and your spouse should agree on what to say and do when a child acts out. It’s important for children to have parents who encourage and enforce the same behavior expectations.
For more on this story visit the site above
